ADHD Across a Lifetime
03 of 08A child who moves or talks a lot may draw attention quickly. A child who sits quietly and misses instructions may go unnoticed, even when school takes a lot of effort. [2]
In childhood
Overlooked experiences
Girls and women may be overlooked when their difficulties are less visible. Some spend years developing ways to look organised while privately struggling to keep up.
Hormones can also affect how ADHD shows up, including around periods, pregnancy and perimenopause.
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Diagnosed as an adult
An ADHD diagnosis in adulthood can make sense of things you've struggled with for years. That clarity can bring relief, and it can also bring grief for how much easier some things might have been with the right support.
Medication can help, but it's not the only option. If you're considering taking a stimulant for years, it's worth weighing what it helps with against side effects such as disrupted sleep or reduced appetite. Those effects can take a toll on your wellbeing if they persist, which is why reviewing how the medication affects you over time matters. You can also explore other ways forward, including ADHD-informed therapy or coaching, changes at work, regular movement and tools to settle your nervous system when you're overwhelmed. These approaches can be part of your support with or without medication.
The exhaustion of trying to fit
Keeping up with expectations that take more effort than others see can be exhausting. If anxiety, low mood or substance use is also affecting your life, make room for those experiences when thinking about the support you need. [2, 5]
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